You ruin your life by letting your past influence your future. You tend to keep everything to yourself and you’re your own worst enemy. You don’t forgive yourself for your past and you allow it to dictate your future carrying unnecessary baggage along the way. You tend to push really good people away because you think you’re better off alone than with someone who could be good for you.
You know the actual question is will you allow it to destroy your entire life?
We humans are weak creatures. We tend to depend on others. The reason why you’re asking this question is because you’re still stuck at your past relationship.
I’ll tell you something which your heart won’t let you accept. So your mind has to do the trick here. That person for which you’re asking this question has Moved on already.
Now it’s up to you whether you decide to cry like a wuss all your life or you choose to stand up and see how beautiful this life is. Endless opportunities are waiting for you. It’s up to you if choose to grab them and make something out of your life or do what majority of heart broken do. Waste their life for someone who ain’t worth it.
Sorry if I was harsh but that’s the only way I could have shared this.
Thanks for reading.